BLB, there are countless success stories out there and a fair amount have posted right here. The biggest aspects that you have to realize is that that weight was not added overnight, but over a period of time. So it is going to take a period of time for it to come off. Some people will argue that they do not have the time to exercise/loose weight/change eating habits. But what the success stories here should tell you is this: you have one body, and it is your privilege to take care of it. So you should MAKE time to help it on its journey to become better again. Weight loss can be very basic:
Move your body. No need to start being a marathon runner right away, just make a point to start walking at least 30 minutes a day. Then after a few weeks of that walk for an hour, etcetc. You and the Saint will pass through some awesome locales while RVing. Explore them while walking instead of using a motorized device. Im sure Hunter would love to be your strolling buddy.
Reduce your portions. Its a matter of perception. A bigger plate means more food is piled onto it. Reduce the dish size, heck use a small bowl if it helps you reduce portions. Preparing your own meals vs eating out a lot helps with that. But quite a few establishments will accommodate smaller portions. Or share a meal with the Saint(if she lets you
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Cut the grains/breads. No need to totally abstain, but your grains/breads inherently are like spunges. They dramatically increase in size once consumed. Still like tortillas and its trimmings? Use large lettuce leafs as a wrap instead of the flour kind.
Snack wisely. The popcorn with coconut oil is great. But wish to go more naturally and away from processed? Buy fruit. Lots of great fruit salad recipes out there. My particular favorite is peaches/strawberries/blackberries, a lot of goodness comes a small bowl of these. Or make a salad with spinach as main staple, and get creative with tomato, kale, avocado, etc. Point of using fruits/vegetables? They are like coals on a fire, stoking the steam engine that is your metabolic system.
Last but not least. Water. Lots of water. Helps motility aka bowels aka pooping mechanism and thus it will help expel the material we want to loose first: Fat. 80 percent of our body is water, and just a 2% variation can be detrimental in how we feel and how the body does. Btw, the fruits and veggies help with our water intake too. Cant stand drinking water all the time? Mix in a hint of lemonade or juice or whatever strikes your fancy (although watered wine is probably not recommended).
Give it time, make time, rejoice in the small successes. Realize that you will plateau at times, but thats your body saying im used to this now and therefore i need to be challenged again. Hold yourself accountable first and foremost, and let us motivate you. Let the Saint motivate you.
Hope this helps. See you in J city at the MeetnGreet!