Bob
I'm not going to comment on any of the past few comments because I have been where you are and right now I'm not in the mood to get into an argument with folks on here over psychology and weight loss.
You're going to have good days and bad days and good weeks and bad weeks. Just remember the journey isn't won or lost in a single weigh in. Heck it's not won or lost in 2 weigh in's. As long as you have your head wrapped around where you need to be and how you're going to get there, it all works out in the end.
I appreciated you taking the time to share with me on Saturday at Fairfield. I can't say I know what it is like to have experienced a heart attack or the fear of mortality that you experienced. But I saw and heard a man with determination and a goal to succeed. You're do the right things. Just keep doing them.
Keep the calories as low as possible.
Keep the protein consumption high (Isopure Vanilla Non-Carb Protein Powder is da bomb)
Eat multiple (5-7) small meals a day
Drink a minimum of 1 gallon of water a day. Get yourself a 32 our cup at Wally World and use it as a standard. Remember ice counts also, afterall it is nothing but frozen water.
Walking 10,000 steps a great accomplishment. Take a look at changing your enviorment periodically for doing it. If you don't make the 10K in a certain day, don't feel guilty....do 12K the next day. One thing to keep in mind about the Fitbit, it will pick up movements from driving as well. So if you drive wiht your left hand and you wear it on your left hand it will pick up false steps. And don't forget what I told you about motorcycles and fitbits, the vibrations will give you all the steps you ever want.
Figure out your target in conjunction with your doctor. And if you're not satisfied with your doctor find one you are happy with. I had a "come to jesus" discussion with my PCP over my whole process. He was not liking the way I was doing things, and I basicaly told him that it was working for me and I was feeling the best I've felt since grad school, so either support me or I'll find another doctor. He has been 100% supportive since then.
It's ok to feel guilty about slipping or cheating. Just make sure you keep it in perspective. Friday nights a group of friends have a wine/pizza/movie night. I eat salad and drink the wine and cheat with dark chocolate and maybe a slice of pizza. But I know I'm doing to and have to work out 2x on Saturday and Sunday to make up for it. And I enjoy both the Friday nights and the Satursday/Sunday workouts.
The worst thing you can do it beat yourself up. You're allowed to feel sorry for yourself for 38 seconds then it's time to go back and remember why you're doing this. For yourself and for your family.
The one thing I agree with is that we (me and you and others) didn't get there overnight. And unless you want to go through the surgery for lapband or stomach reduction.....you're going to have to work for your health.
You've helped start something here on TWT.....and I am honestly excited about it. Keep up the work. Make sure you do not overdo it too soon.
As I have stated on here and in person, if you have questions or need advice or just need/want to vent a bit let me know, I'm happy to share my phone number with you.