Thanks I think I will move up to 15 for starters and see how that goes. The suspension is ok for most of my riding, it is just the sharp hits like topes and potholes at speed that launches me airborne. Without any adjustments like rebound or damping, I may have to just live with it. A change of oil weight is my only cheap option.
Just to be clear, a heavier weight or thicker oil will make bumps feel more harsh because the thicker oil will flow through the damping/rebound valves slower. This reduces the ability of the forks to absorb hard fast hits. Lower weight or thinner oil will flow through the valves faster. This will allow the forks to compress more quickly upon impact to absorb a hit. Having adjustable suspension usually means that you can control the fork's ability to flow the oil more easily or to resist the flow for a given oil. It might also include the ability to adjust the preload on the spring for setting your sag without having to get into the internals of the fork.
The really nice suspension will not only include that level of adjustment, but it will also include separate adjustments for high speed and slow speed movement of the suspension, one for those sudden hard hits and the other for the slower more rhythmic flowing of an undulating road surface. On the rear, it may also include a ride height adjustment. Then there is the high end stuff that allows all this to be adjusted on the fly at the dash with the flick of a button to change settings among various presets!
Anyway, getting back to your comment about topes, it sounds like you are experiencing a harsh jolting ride. That tells me that the combination of oil and compression/rebound valves you have now is restricting the flow of the oil. This means that when you have a sharp sudden input, the oil causes the fork to essentially act like a solid because the oil unable to get through the valves is incompressible and will stop the form from compressing at the rate it needs too in order to effectively absorb the hit. Thinner oil would solve this problem, not heavier. Fork oil is relatively cheap and easy to replace. I would start by going from 10 to maybe 7.5 and see if that helps. Keep in mind that this is only a solution for those hard hits. If things are fine for the normal riding without the hard hits, then you might make things worse for that range of operation. In which case, if the 10 weight is fine for everything but those hard hits, you may want to stay where you are and just slow down for the hard stuff. Sadly, inexpensive suspension involves a LOT of compromises, which is why it is inexpensive.
When I first started riding, everyone made me think that the first thing I needed to do to a new bike was get a full exhaust and a power commander to max out the power. I had a VFR, so the sound aspect was definitely sweet with the aftermarket exhaust!! I thought it was money well spent and that the bike handled fantastic until I spent the money to install high quality suspension. I was blown away in the difference between the before and after!!
At that point, I decided that the most important upgrade to any bike I ever bought would be the suspension. Good suspension will make the bike handle better and thus go faster more easily than just adding power. It makes the bike easier to ride in a controlled manner. It CAN get expensive if you go all out, but you can also make significant improvements without spending a small fortune. Springs and oil are cheap. Even revalving is not super expensive. Changes to the rear are generally more expensive, but they also pay with big rewards in handling, especially if you carry a passenger or luggage very often.